30 Apr 15 Secrets to Keeping Your New Year’s Resolution (Or Any Goal)
It’s that time of the year. The eggnog is flowing, the party hats have been purchased, and you’re thinking about who you’re going to be kissing at midnight. Yes, it’s just about time for New Year’s, 2015, and that means one more thing: New Year’s Resolutions.
New Year’s resolutions are the goals you set aggressively for yourself, only to fall off by mid-January. I’m going to lose weight. I’m going to exercise more. I’m going to network more. I’m going to start that business. We’ve all been there. The first, perhaps more important step to actually achieving a goal is to make it a SMART, metrics-driven goal. as I wrote about last year at time time. But even once you have a SMART, metrics-driven goal, it’s not easy to keep at it, day after day, and week after week. In order to find out how people do it, I asked successful members of the Young Entrepreneur Council (YEC), an invite-only organization comprised of the world’s most promising young entrepreneurs. These are the 15 secrets they shared to accomplishing your New Year’s Resolution, or any goal:
1. Make a Bet
It’s easy to say things you “want to do,” but when a bet is placed on your head for following through, this outside motivation can help you actually stick to the goals you set for yourself. For a workout challenge I had with my wife, my consequence for failing was to rollerblade in a pink thong in South Beach…Yes, a pink thong. I didn’t fail.
– Chris Brisson, Co-Founder, Call Loop
2. Become Accountable
It can be hard to stick to a resolution if you go it alone, whether it’s a business-focused goal or “hit the gym three times a week.” So get your significant other or a friend to check in with you regularly. That way you’ll combine your own motivation with not wanting to let someone else down, and will hopefully stick to that resolution throughout the year.
– Grant Gordon, President and CEO, Solomon Consulting Group
3. Put It On Your Calendar
I keep my New Year’s resolutions by thinking of them a little differently. Instead of a single yearly event, I decide to make consistent changes and put them on my calendar. For example, my 2006 New Year’s resolution was to go to the gym at least four times per week. I put it on my calendar and I’ve been going to the gym for the past eight years. In fact, now I’m up to six times per week on average.
– Vladimir Gendelman, Founder and CEO, Company Folders, Inc
4. Use the “Way of Life” App
I use the app Way of Life to keep track of all of my daily and weekly goals. It’s a simple, intuitive app that lets you track whether or not you’ve met any given goal on any given day. The only choices are green (success), red (failure) or gray (skip). Over time, you can see graphs and trends for each resolution or goal. It adds accountability and a gamification component to help keep you on track.
– Brittany Hodak, Co-founder, ZinePak
5. Put It In Writing and Post it Where You will See It
I find the best way to keep on track with a goal is to put it in writing and put it somewhere you will see it. By having it right in front of you, on a post it or on your smart phone, you can easily keep yourself accountable.
– Phil Laboon, President, Eyeflow Internet Marketing
6. Assign it an Adjective
I love to make my New Years goals and assign three to four adjectives that describe/encompass the way I want the year to look. So when it’s tough to remember each of the goals specifically on a daily basis, it’s easy to think about these descriptors and how your life would look/feel if those were true today. I find this motivating to keep moving forward in a positive direction.
– Darrah Brustein, Founder, Network Under 40 / Finance Whiz Kids
7. Go Public
Decide on what you want to change and tell everyone. Tell your friends, family, strangers and people you meet at the store. The more you talk about it, the more others are involved and know your goal, the easier it will be to change.
– Bhavin Parikh, CEO and Co-founder , Magoosh Inc
8. Make Commitments Instead
I read a great article about commitments by Chris Freyteg. My favorite line was, “A resolution may be the act of resolving or deciding on a course of action, but a commitment can be far stronger, because it’s a specific pledge, promise or obligation.” The bottom line: Keep it simple and you’ll actually be able to add it your busy daily life.
– Nicole Smartt, Co-Owner/Vice President, Star Staffing
9. Make It Easier Than Your Current Habit
People usually pick the easiest alternatives in their day, so to make your resolution work, make your new task easier than an existing one. Want to eat healthier? Throw away all the junk food in your house and replace it with healthy snacks and ban junk food in the house altogether. Want to start running? Put your running clothing by your bed each night so it is the closest to you each morning.
– Charlie Graham, Founder & CEO , Shop It To Me, Inc.
10. Have an Incentive
I set myself targets and goals, and I splurge/reward myself after I achieve them. That incentive motivates me to not break my resolutions. On the other hand, if I do break them I set punishments for myself by taking something away. Make sure that you’re incentivized to keep on increasing the positive feedback and canceling the negative feedback.
– Ridaa Murad, Managing Partner, Christina Ventures
11. Use the Streaks App
Streaks is an app that helps you create habits. For each of your resolutions, you can create a calendar that allows you to “check” each day that you do what you say you’re going to do. The goal is to maintain a streak. For example, if you want to wake up by 6 a.m. you would check each day that you achieve that goal. The longer your streak, the more likely you are to maintain that resolution.
– Natalie MacNeil, CEO, She Takes on the World
12. Change Your Internal Vocabulary
I have a strange diet that is 90 percent meat and vegetables (extremely low carb, low fruit). The initial change was tough until I changed my internal vocabulary from “I shouldn’t eat that pasta,” to “I don’t eat that” or “that’s not food for me.” To me, they aren’t even food anymore and therefore aren’t tempting. This trick works with all changes. “I don’t sleep late,” rather than “I should get up now.”
– Brennan White, Founder and CEO, Cortex
13. Get Down to Business
Treat your resolution the way you treat your work. Make plans, set deadlines and adhere to a schedule. If you don’t meet your goals, evaluate what went wrong and how you can recover.
– Simon Casuto, Founder, eLearning Mind
14. Set Mini Goals
It’s easy to set a goal of to lose weight or stop smoking. The problem is our failure to plan a linear path on how to achieve that goal. Doing something cold-turkey never works and sets us on the path to failure. However, by creating a linear path with small goals in between, we can more easily keep our internal drive going so we can achieve our end result.
– Cody McLain, CEO, WireFuseMedia LLC
15. Have Calendar Alerts
Set calendar alerts now to remind you to stay on track. For some, that may mean scheduling your workouts for 2015 now. For me, it means setting alerts reminding me to send thank you notes every week to people who have gone above and beyond to support my business.
– Alexis Wolfer, CEO, The Beauty Bean
Here’s how I accomplished my personal goal last year, and here are 365 inspirational quotes to keep you motivated each day in 2015.